You’re cute and all, but still…

...Just a few things: 1.  I say what I mean and mean what I say. Trans. No = unequivocally NO, not gonna happen.  Ever. Yes = Absolutely! Maybe = Probably not, but I don't want to hurt your feelings and I know I should keep my options open.  But still: highly doubtful. 2.  Love  me [...]

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad!

Timely fodder for this month--stuff about love... Plus today is my mom and dad's 43rd wedding anniversary. (Imagine that)! Anyway, it seemed as good a time as any to share a soundtrack of some of my favorite love songs.  It's hardly an exhaustive list, but these are definitely among my all time favs. What are [...]

Say Something

One night, actually it was Valentine’s Day, I heard a couple arguing outside my window.  I lived in a club district, so that night though it was a week night, was pretty active.  I had been watching the couples, mostly laughing at the obvious newbies and the bored but diligent oldheads.  I had turned my [...]

Safe (Vent Ahead–You’ve Been Warned)

"Well behaved women seldom make history." Laurel Thatcher Ulrich ___________________________ I was running this morning, doing H.I.I.T. H.I.I.T. is High Intensity Interval Training.  The goal is to max your heart rate for 30-45 seconds, recover, and do it again a few times in order to improve general performance and burn reserved fat stores. I hear [...]

Ayiti: L’âme se fortifie Béchons joyeux, béchons joyeux…

May the fields be fertile/And our souls take courage (from the Haitian National Anthem: La Dessalinienne) Tonight I send white light to Jessica’s dad, Pierre’s family, Edrice, Edmus, and the Danticats who remain… Haiti is a country whose history is one of fiercely fought for—and earned—independence. While in the face of such unspeakable and overwhelming [...]

rethink: Reasonable

rea.son.able (adj) governed by or being in accordance with sound thinking; not extreme or excessive _________________________________________________________ I was in 6th grade and I had to interview my uncle, a psychologist, about his career.  It was a science project. I’m not sure why I was so nervous because I saw Uncle Alvin nearly monthly at family [...]

Be good. For something.

Be not too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life. Aim above morality. Be not simply good.  Be good for something.   Henry David Thoreau

The matter is life.

The matter is life. Science can only tell us that when the muscle of the heart no longer functions, life ends. Yet Science has still not officially decided where life begins (or else the abortion debate would be moot). Regardless of religious faith we are socialized to believe life—the functioning heart—is sacred and globally, laws [...]

Becoming

This morning I woke up with the migraine of life.  And no voice--I've been practically whispering since Friday.  I was a little frustrated because illness generally effs with my psyche not to mention my plans. As for my plans, it eliminated the opportunity to get in my morning run--a newly revisited endeavor (because a girl needs [...]