Prince and Philando and Futures Untold. by Stacia L. Brown

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http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x3zfgyi_prince-1999-1982_music 1. “Don’t worry. I only want you to have some fun.” It depends on the mother. But some begin to lose themselves in the fleshy, post-birth folds around their waists, in the feeling of excess blood, decreasing and slowly recalibrating its flow, in adjusting to the less taxing…

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“We can no longer adequately enact the stations of loss…And even the writers cannot keep apace with their elegies.”

— Stacia L. Brown

Stacia L. Brown

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x3zfgyi_prince-1999-1982_music

1. “Don’t worry. I only want you to have some fun.”

It depends on the mother. But some begin to lose themselves in the fleshy, post-birth folds around their waists, in the feeling of excess blood, decreasing and slowly recalibrating its flow, in adjusting to the less taxing burden of one body again, instead of the heft of two.

It depends on the mother. But for some, childbirth is beset with instability, the worry attendant to a partner’s precarious presence. Now you see him, texting in the delivery room, now you don’t, at the 3 in the morning beside the changing table or hunched over the diaper pail.

He is at once flesh and apparition, at once as essential as the braided DNA inside the baby and as intangible as desert air. One too many complaints and he could slip away for good. One too many worries voiced and…

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